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C-4 Wednesday, Januar y 16, 2019 The Press-Dispatch HOME LIFE TO ADVERTISE: Call: 812-354-8500 Email: ads@pressdispatch.net Visit: 820 E. Poplar Street, Petersburg Deadline: 5 p.m. on Monday Youth First Today by Jaclyn Durnil, Youth First, Inc. Helping children cope with upsetting news Location: 2667 E. Co. Rd. 400 S., Winslow, IN View photos on auctionzip.com, I.D. number 46613 Terms and Conditions: Cash or check with proper I.D.; announcements day of auction take precedence over previous advertisements; buying everything as is, where is. Any questions, contact: Kaleb Claridge 812-789-6761 NEXT AUCTION: Coleman Estate Feb 16 10 a.m. EST at the Auction Barn Check auctionzip oen for updated listings and pictures. Antiques/Collectibles: 4 gallon UHL crock, 5 gallon UHL crock, small whiskey jug, stoneware spittoon, 2 UHL bowls, 1 gallon crock, 8 gallon, double handle crock, several arrowheads, thousands of base- ball cards from the 60s and 70s, player's names like Mickey Mantle, Stan Musial, Roberto Clemente, Hank Aaron, Ricky Henderson, and many other great names and Hall of Famers, rookie cards, baseball helmets, old comic books, toy car collection with more than 30 toy cars, several silver coins, foreign currency and other coins, Pewter bowl, belt buckles, several pocket watches, big saw blade, Pepsi ther- mometer, Marathon sign, Winston Cigarette display, washboard, 4 copper pots, old milk bottles, toy tractor, vintage metal baseball game, beer sign, oil lamp, lots of old bottles, 2 cast iron wheels, Case IH cast iron crank, metal mailbox, cast iron crates, dinner bell, coffee grinder, 14 pocket knives. Furniture: Around 50 pieces of furniture, bookshelf, very nice hutch, wooden cabinet, nice China cabinet, 3 dressers, 2 wooden desks, sec- retary desk, 2 small bookshelves, primitive cabinet, Tell City hutch, Tell City table with 6 chairs, wrought iron end table, 3 nice buffets, 8 end tables, six leg table, nice kitchen table, drop leaf table, primitive table, hope chest, wooden chairs, small octagon table, 2 coffee tables, 3 La-Z-Boy recliners, couch and love seat, very nice, like-new bed, rocking chair and more. Glassware: more than 20 pieces of vintage Pyrex, green and pink de- pression, Fostoria, Carnival glass, cut glass, Fenton and lots of other glassware. Miscellaneous: lots of returned items from Lowes, more than 10 light fixtures in box, ceiling fans, bathroom vanities in box, blinds in box, stainless steel sinks, yard lights in box, new Kobalt sanding pads, out- door heater, filters and many other items from Lowes, lots of long han- dle tools, leaf blowers, utility wagon, ratchets and lots of box lots. Auctioneer's Note: What an auction with which to start off 2019! e auction barn is jam-packed with lots of items. Auction will be located indoors in a climate controlled building with seats available . Auc- tion will last for several hours. is is just a partial listing, lots more items not pictured or mentioned. Come spend the day and have fun. Cash or Check with proper ID. NO BUYER'S PREMIUM! LOCAL ESTATE AUCTION SATURDAY, JAN. 19 10 a.m. EST Telling a child that someone has died can be difficult. Most children are aware of death, but that doesn't necessarily mean they understand it. Children may have seen someone die on television or in a movie, or some of their friends may have lost a loved one. Experiencing grief can be a confusing and scary process for kids. Grieving is a set of emotional, cognitive, behavioral, and physical reactions that can vary depending on the individual and the nature of the loss. During the grieving process children may have a difficult time processing the actual event and coping with the loss of the loved one. One of the primary feelings can be fear - fear of not knowing what can hap- pen in the future or fear of the unknown. Some children might have a more diffi- cult time with the grieving process. It's very important to be patient and understanding. Long-term denial of death or avoiding grief can be unhealthy for children. Grief can eas- ily resurface and cause more severe prob- lems. Children experiencing grief may exhibit these types of behaviors: • Changes in sleep or eating patterns • Regression to younger behaviors, such as separation anxiety • Expressing desire to be with the de- ceased person • Lack of interest in playing with friends • Changes in grades or school behavior • Loss of interest in activities that once excited them Children are constantly learning and growing and may revisit the grief process several times. Events such as birthdays, graduation, holidays, etc. may be difficult for children at times. There is no "normal" period of time for someone to grieve. Simply being present and attentive to a child who is grieving will help as they ex- press their feelings. At times children may worry about how their parents or caregiv- ers are adjusting. Children may find it safer and easier to talk with someone else such as a teacher, friend, Youth First Social Worker in their school, etc. No one can prevent a child's grief, but simply being a source of stability and com- fort can be very helpful. Very young chil- dren often do not understand that death is a permanent thing and may they think that a dead loved one will eventually come back. For many children, the death of a pet will be their first experience with grief. They build a connection with their pet that is very strong, and when they no longer have that bond, it can be extremely upsetting. It is im- portant to let the child grieve for their pet in- stead of immediately replacing the pet with a new animal. During that period is an opportunity to teach the child about death and how to deal with grieving in a healthy and emotional- ly supportive way. At times, children may seem unusually upset as they are unable to cope with grief, which can lead to adjust- ment disorder. Adjustment disorder can be a serious and upsetting condition that some children de- velop after going through a difficult event. If a child is not recovering from a loss in a healthy way, it is important to consult with your child's doctor. This column is written by Jaclyn Durnil, MSW, school social worker for Youth First, Inc., a local nonprofit dedicated to strength- ening youth and families. Youth First provides 55 Master's level social workers to 76 schools in 10 Indiana counties. Over 38,000 youth and families per year have access to Youth First's school social work and after-school programs that prevent substance abuse, pro- mote healthy behaviors, and maximize stu- dent success. 814 Niblack Blvd., Vincennes • 1-800-743-7004 www.bairdvincennes.com 21st OFFERS FINANCING FOR: HOME ONLY LAND HOME LAND IN LIEU BUY-FOR USED HOME FINANCING SECONDARY HOUSING VISIT: Apply.21stMortgage.com FAX: 1.877.312.2100 *Certain loan conditions must be met. 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