The O-town Scene - Oneonta, NY
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Jim Koury Empower yourself to change life and society Wikipedia defines “empower- ment” as “increasing the spiri- tual, political, social or econom- ic strength of individuals and communities. It often involves the empowered developing confidence in their own capacities.” Empowerment is a term that is often used too much and has become cliché. Yet at the same time it is a concept that best describes many situations. Often times it is very difficult for a LGBTQ person to feel empowered when society is constantly telling them that they are abnormal, and when our government does not repeal and continues to pass legislation that discrimi- nates against LGBTQ individuals. When one is considered a second-class citizen by its government and others, it is hard to find the motivation to develop a confidence in oneself to seek and find a higher purpose. But to that end we must in spite of the ob- stacles thrown before us. Dire consequences ensue to a LGBTQ indi- vidual that does not feel empowered. It results in a feeling of helplessness, creates anxiety and unresolved internal conflict. It also creates feelings of guilt because of the lack of motiva- tion to help further the cause of equality, thus causing one to simply sit on the sidelines and let external forces dictate what they shall be and how they shall function in society. The basic premise of the concept of empowerment is “power.” We all have the power to change and cre- ate situations in our lives that will increase our “spiritual, political, social or economic strength.” We do not have to nor can we settle for someone else telling us who we shall be and what rights we shall and shall not have. How does one create empowerment in their lives? We must all decide what is important to us and then live in harmony with those things. We must be willing to speak what it is that we hold true in our hearts and not care about what others think. We must make decisions based on our val- ues and what we feel is important rather than what others think is important. We must not settle for less than what we deserve to make us happy. Taken in aggregate, we can begin to create an environment in which a wave of change may overpower those that desire to maintain the status quo and relegate LGBTQ individuals to second-class status. Have the confidence in your own capacity to change. Empower yourself! LGBTQ Events Thurs. 11/18 Trash Thursday with Katrina, 9 p.m., Merlin’s, 201 State Street, Binghamton. Safer Sex Gathering at The Stone Mill, Little Falls. Sign up by calling Bob Forbes at (800) 475-2430 or e-mail at: CONNECT@aidscommunityresources.com. Fri. 11/19 College Night, Merlin’s, 201 State St., Binghamton. Col- lege ID’s in free before 11 p.m. Sat. 11/20 SAGE-EON Transgender Combined Potluck, 5 to 9 p.m., First English Luthern Church, SAGE offices, 2nd Floor Library. Bring a dish to pass as you are able. Movie Night at The Cube, “Paris is Burning,” 7 to 9 p.m., 208 State St., Binghamton. Cornucopia of Music: Capital Pride Singers Fall Concert, Emmanual Baptist Church, 275 State St., Albany. Fri. 11/26 The Night of Illusion Show, 10 p.m., Twist Ultra Lounge and Dance, 252 W Genesee St., Syracuse, featuring some of the area’s female impersonators hosted by Miss Courtney Wells. No cover for 21+ and $3 for under 21. Tues. 11/30 The Miss Empire State New York 2010 Pageant, 8:30 p.m., TREXX Night Club, 319 North Clinton St., Syra- cuse. Tickets $10. Starring Miss KeKe Valasquez Lord — Miss Empire State NY 2009. (315) 345-7143 or CWProductionsNY @aol.com. Wed. 12/1 World AIDS Day, 9 a.m. to 4 p.m., free HIV Testing Day at Planned Parenthood in Oneonta, 37 Dietz St. Sat. 12/4 Naughty or Nice Party, 8 p.m., Merlin’s, join the Bears of Binghamton for a “Naughty or Nice” weekend, 201 State St., Binghamton. 34 O-Town Scene Nov. 18, 2010 the Diversity Scene Nov. 18-25