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C-4 Wednesday, June 26, 2019 The Press-Dispatch HOME LIFE TO ADVERTISE: Call: 812-354-8500 Email: ads@pressdispatch.net Visit: 820 E. Poplar Street, Petersburg Deadline: 5 p.m. on Monday Youth First Today by Niki Walls, Youth First, Inc. FAVORITE GRILLED PORK CHOPS MEALS IN Monica's MINUTES Share your favorite recipe! www.facebook.com/mealsinminutes Monica's Meals in Minutes PO Box 68, Petersburg, IN 47567 mealsinminutes@pressdispatch.net FACEBOOK MAIL EMAIL By Monica Sinclair What are your plans for the 4th of July? Are you having a cookout with your family and friends? If so, I have a great rec- ipe for you to try this holiday. With only a few ingredients, you can be the star chef. I decided to put this in a week early to give you time to go shopping. You might even have most of these ingredients in your pantry already. Enjoy! INGREDIENTS • 1/2 cup Worcestershire sauce • 1/4 cup minced fresh parsley • 1/4 cup balsamic vinegar • 1/4 cup soy sauce • 2 tablespoons olive oil • 1 teaspoon minced garlic • 1/2 teaspoon pepper • 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper • 4 boneless pork loin chops (8 ounces each and 1 inch thick) DIRECTIONS 1. In a large bowl, combine the first eight ingredi- ents. Add pork chops; turn to coat. Refrigerate for 8 hours or overnight. 2. Drain and discard marinade. Grill pork chops, covered, over medium heat for 10 -15 minutes on each side or until a thermometer reads 145°. Let meat stand for 5 minutes before serving. Source: tasteof home.com Death is a part of life, and grief comes along with it. Helping a child grieve and understand death can be very difficult. Psychiatrist Gail Saltz explains, "Children under- stand that death is bad, and they don't like separation, but the concept of 'forever' is just not present." Children often have a hard time wrap- ping their brains around the concept of death and do not always have the coping skills they need to handle it. If you are helping a child through the grieving pro- cess, here are some impor- tant tips to remember: • When breaking the news about death, be clear. Do not use terms that a child may take literally, as a child may then become fearful of "going to sleep" if that is what they think hap- pened to their loved one who passed. Do not volunteer too much information or go into details that could cause con- fusion or fear in the child. However, do be honest and answer their questions the best you can. • Each child grieves differently, just like adults. The child's moods may fluctuate and be incon- sistent. This does not mean the child is grieving inappro- priately; it just means they are processing in different ways. Sometimes the child's action could reflect a defense mechanism they are tapping into as a way of coping. The child may feel many differ- ent emotions (such as anger or guilt) toward the person that has died, depending on their understanding of the situation. • Allow your child to express a variety of emo- tions. It is good practice for everyone to be able to ex- press the emotions they are feeling, especially grieving kids. Help your child under- stand their emotions and uti- lize a safe way of expressing these emotions. It may not be easy for your child to ex- press them in an appropriate manner. If that is the case, encourage them to do things like writing, drawing, or role playing a memory of the per- son they have lost. • Understand your own grief. Aside from helping your child grieve, you will likely be grieving yourself. Your child's grief will like- ly reflect your own. It is im- portant to allow your child to see safe emotion expres- sion. Please do not project your grief onto the child. Do not make the child feel as though they need to be the caretaker in the situation or escalate it so it is emotional- ly harder for them. • Be consistent. Kids crave consistency. They want a routine and a sense of normalcy. This is true in the calm of their lives and al- so in the chaos. • Practice coping skills. Children can of- ten struggle with self-reg- ulation and managing their emotions. By practicing coping skills with the child, they will likely have an easi- er time containing extreme emotional outbursts. Coping skills can include a variety of things like listening to mu- sic, making a memory col- lage, journaling, etc. • Preparation. It is im- portant to prepare your child for what to expect from a fu- neral, burial or any other death ritual that might take Helping children through GRIEF Continued on page 5 Beautiful home that has two master suites, along with another bedroom and bathroom. Complemented by a large living room, dining room, kitchen and laundry room. SURPRISINGLY LARGE HOME! Perfect for the couple who have an elderly parent or older child living with them. DEALS LIKE THIS DON'T LAST LONG! SAVE $20,000 Plus HOMES 814 NIBLACK BLVD., VINCENNES • 1-800-743-7004 • WWW.BAIRDVINCENNES.COM If Granny comes to stay, affordable luxury is the way! Help Me! HURRY! Location: 2667 E. Co. Rd. 400 S., Winslow View photos on auctionzip.com, I.D. number 46613 Terms and Conditions: Cash or check with proper I.D.; announcements day of auction take precedence over previous advertisements; buying everything as is, where is. Any questions: contact Kaleb Claridge 812-789-6761 Check auctionzip oen for updated listings and pictures. Antiques and Collectibles: UHL 1-gallon jug, brown and white crock, but- ter crocks, 4-gallon water crock cooler, 3 crock bread bowls, old marbles, red handle utensils, 2 vintage croaky sets, Newport cigarette sign, brass pump, vintage sewing machines, 2 wooden boxes, old meat grinders, wash tub, min - now trap, oil lamp, 2 kraut cutters, Dazey butter churn, 2 vintage coolers, pickle jar, antique mailbox, rolling pins, Galvanized buckets, 2 copper pots, cast iron skillets, old tobacco tins, vintage mantle clock, cowbell, 25+ Ball jars, other old jars, 2 vintage gas cans, enamel pots, Coke sign, Pepsi crate, cast iron pans, small advertisement pieces, stoneware pitcher, 2-gallon crock, quilts, vintage dirt bike, several deer antlers, hay trolley, kettle, runner sled, BB gun, antique belt buckles, washboard, double wash tub with ringer, 2 vin - tage trunks, several pocket knives, 2 metal chairs. Coins/Longaberger Baskets/ Jewelry: 100s of coins, several Morgan silver dollars, Peace silver dollars, Ike silver dollars, walking liberty silver dollars, Franklin half dollars, Kennedy half dollars, 5 oz. silver bar, complete set of quarters 1946-1959, several Jefferson nickels, Mercury dimes, Lincoln head pennies, wheat pennies, Indian head pennies, Roosevelt dimes, Barber dimes, proof sets, forging coins, Canadian pennies, steel pennies, Liberty V nickels, several partial sets of coins, several coins are UNC and graded, blue and red seal 5 dollar bills, 2 dollar red seal, foreign paper notes, several rings 18K and 14K gold, sterling silver rings, pocket watches, lots of costume jewelry, 125+ Longaberger baskets, all types and different sized baskets, with some still in the box. Furniture/Glassware: 40+ pieces of furniture, very nice kitchen table with 6 chairs, kitchen island, small wooden table, kitchen table with chairs, 7 night stands, vintage desk, antique dresser w/mirror, dresser, large wardrobe, 3 beds, Coke stand, wooden file cabinet, 2 matching book shelves, nice chest of drawers, computer desk, 4 wooden rocking chairs, shelf, 8 recliners, 2 nice La-Z-Boys with matching couch, several pieces of vintage Pyrex, Fiesta, vintage Fire King, Corningware, juice glass, cut glass, China sets, and other glassware. Tools/Misc.: complete set of Crasmen sockets, ratchet, pipe wrenches, tool - box, Fuller vise, bench grinder, shop vac, long handle tools, concrete planter, deep freezer, safe, lots of box lots. Auctioneer's Note: What an auction this will be! We will be running 2 rings. Ring one will be antiques, collectibles, furniture, glassware and more. Ring two will be coins, jewelry and Longaberger baskets. Be sure to bring a friend. Sale will last for several hours. Auction will be indoors with seats available. Hope to see you there! TWO-RING OAKLAND CITY ESTATE AUCTION SATURDAY, JUNE 29 10 a.m. EDT PUBLIC AUCTION Hoffman and Mullen Auctioneers have been commissioned to sell: Antiques, Guns, Household, Lawn & Outdoor Items, on Saturday, June 29, 2019 at 9 a.m. EDT Auction held at 402 East 26 Street, Jasper, IN Directions to property: In Jasper, from U.S. 231 (Newton St.) Take 26th Street, go east and auction is on the left (watch for signs). This is a large auction on a shady lot. Antiques and Old Items: 2 old grandfather clocks, can bottom rocker, glass octagon display case, kerosene lamp, old secretary, very old dresser w/mirror, ornate chest, piano stool and more. A lifetime collec- tion of old and unusual items. Guns: SOLD AT 1 p.m.: Browning automatic 376033, 12 gauge, en- graved, Belgium; Winchester 37, 12 gauge; Topper M 48 Harrington & Richardson Arms, 12 gauge. Household: 14 ft. lift chair for stairway, Kimball organ, 4 couches, coffee table, wall cabinet, 2 flat screen TVs, 4 couches, 2 loveseats and much more. Lawn & Outdoor Equipment: 2 alum. extension ladders, shop vac, lawnchairs, garden cart w/metal wheels, metal patio set with 4 chairs, gas grill, hornets' nest, paddle boat, Jon boat, old tools, porch swing and more. Terms: Cash or good check at auction. Nothing removed until settled for. Lunch available. Announcements made day of sale take prece- dence over printed material. Not responsible for accidents. Owner: Edgar and Laverne Brosmer Primary Trust Hoffman & Mullen Auctioneers 405 Main Street, Jasper – 812-482-5000 or 800-599-3766 Daniel C. Hoffman AU01015193, Patrick W. Mullen AU01015347 Pictures at: hoffmanandmullenrealty.com or auctionzip.com MIDWEST REALTY 1704 E. National Hwy., Washington Check out these listings and more online at midwestrealty.net Ranch home with 4 bedrooms on almost 2 acres just north of Petersburg. MLS#201917400 THIS PROPERTY IS SOLD "AS IS" MLS#201918861 HOUSES FOR SALE Call Angela Clinton: 812-257-1708 Call Mary Roark: 812-486-6363 $ 79,500 $ 24,900 812-254-3918 NEW LISTING! NEW LISTING!