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16 | Diversity Rules Magazine| June 2023 Declu er - Con't from page 13 4. The lack of syndrome – a lot of my clients have grown up with families who went through the great depression or were kids of parents who went through it, which leads to a lack of fear. We need to look at our lives realis cally and become aware of our financial situa ons to know if we really need to worry about not having enough or if it is a learned trait. When looking at Physical clu er, you need to ask yourself: Do I have clu er due to me management? Do I have clu er due to space issues? Is my clu er due to a life change or major illness- with Covid 19, we may experience more clu er than usual. If that is the case, ask yourself, pre covid 19, did I have a lot of clu er? If the answer is no, then don't stress; you will go back to your norm when this is all done. Remember, every situa on is temporary. Is my clu er affec ng my mood, rela onships, and thought process or causing danger at my house? 5. Is your clu er causing you to feel daily stress, or is it a reminder of areas that are not working in your life? 6. Where is my physical clu er? Home? Office? Car? Pocketbook? Wallet? Backpack? Etc. 7. When looking at areas of physical clu er, ask your- self: is this clu er bringing me pleasure or frustra- on/stress? If it brings you pleasure and isn't causing a problem in rela onships or danger, then enjoy it. If not, it's me to dive in and de-clu er. What is clu er to me might not be for you. 8. De-clu er anger with forgiveness – when we hold onto anger, it phases every area of our life. Forgive- ness is done for you and you only. It's not about the other person. To forgive, you must make the choice and commitment to the process. 9. De-clu er the overs mula on of technology by unplugging at night about an hour before bed, dur- ing dinner, and when socializing. Spending me in nature is another great way to de-clu er all the men- tal noise in your head. Sans Clothing - Con't from page 6 I asked Dean if he would recommend being an Only Fans performer to others. His thoughts included that before star ng this adventure someone should thor- oughly think about it and consider if exposing him- self to the world would match personal goals. He added to perform in OF you need to be a rebel and have self-confidence. (As an exhibi onist myself I agree with that last point.) He encourages guys who would enjoy showing off online to just go ahead and give it a try. Dean also pointed out that there's lots of work in- volved. He needs to plan his shows, link up with po- ten al partners and keep in touch with his followers which can be quite me-consuming. And since OF is his work he needs to keep good financial records as the money he earns is, of course, taxable income. Well, I'm going to end my wri ng so that I can log into Only Fans to watch Dean do his naked thing. Come and join me! But first—huge thanks to Dean for spending me with me and for being so open about his Only Fans experience. Dean Clark can be seen on Twi er@clarkmsn33, on Instagram@neal_wisc_recon, and JustFor.Fans @ clarkmsn33, and on Only Fans@dean_clark. I love hearing from readers of my column. My email is stuauthor@gmail.com. Thanks. Stu

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